Where are they now?
Great Monk Wood sits within Epping Forest, a pocket of old, dense growth where huge pollards lean and twist above a soft floor of leaf mould and bracken. The light shifts constantly - filtered through layered canopies, catching on mossed trunks and deadwood. Great Monk Wood is home to ancient hornbeams, interspersed with oak, beech, silver birch, holly and occasional sweet chestnut growing through the understorey. Bordering the edge of Loughton, the wood holds a stillness that feels older than the town beside it. Over the years many people have marked the trunks of the trees with symbols of love. I don't know who those people are, if they are still together or if they are still alive but the markings on the trees remember the day that they carved their initials in an act of faith in the relationship that they were sharing at that moment. Some of the carvings are very old, the oldest I have ever found being from 1913 but some are very new which tells me that this is a timeless act and speaks to the human need to remember moments and memorialise love. Great Monk Wood is only small but there are hundreds of these markings. I have added the what3words locations for some of my favourites in this book. what3words is a free app that divides the world into 3-metre squares and assigns each one a unique three-word address; you can download it from the App Store or Google Play, then open the map to find precise locations using those three words. Whether those people spent the rest of their lives together or broke up the next day, the trees remember. They carry a carved promise forward in wood that thickens, darkens and quietly outlives us all.